it isn't who you love, it's how you love

i’m so sarcastic that even when i’m not being sarcastic i sound sarcastic

# someone actually told this about me once

Glee ended and I just busted out laughing cuz I knew that tumblr would be up in a frenzy that there was no Klaine ending.

# glee

# klaine

# im pissed to

Anonymous asked

I appreciate the apology. Nearly 1 in 5 women have been sexually assaulted. Some of these women were in the ros tag, some of these women you prob are close to in real life & have never spoken of it to you, some are talking to you right now. Please learn more about it so you can have more compassion in your heart. I understand the show will portray things like this from time to time, but it PISSES me off when theres no valid character depth or plot line point in it. it's gratuitous & triggering

Thank you for accepting my apology. And I do know about this issue and I do have compassion for victims of sexual assault. I just made a very bad snap decision and didn’t think before I posted.

Anonymous asked

i understand that you have an opinion and want to say it, but some people (me included) were really triggered, and to have someone post in the ros tag that they should get over it is really terrible. the ros tag should be a safe place for ros fans, just like any tag should be a safe place for its fans. please don't tag those hateful opinions; post them as much as you like, but don't tag them. basic tumblr etiquitte.

I completely understand that I shouldn’t have posted in the Ros tag or have said get over it. They were not a good idea on my part and everyone makes mistakes. And I am sincerely sorry if I offended you. That was my purpose. I am going to delete that post right now.

Anonymous asked

uhh plenty of people have complained about other cases of gratuitous sexual violence scenes in the show. if you didn't notice it on your dash, you're following the wrong people. It is known

Well, I don’t come on tumblr very often. And I am sorry if I offended anybody. But everyone should be aloud to share there opinions, even if you don’t agree with them. But I am very sorry if I offended you, that was not my goal.

I understand that I shouldn’t have said to get over it. Some people could have really been affected by that image of Ros and what happened and I’m truly sorry for not taking that into account.
But at the same time, I also had an opinion that I shared and I stick to it.

# game of thrones

# ros

# im sorry

Anonymous asked

MAYBE THEY'RE OFFENDED and you should stop letting your privilege show and give a little compassion.

I’m not saying I’m privileged. I can see why people would be upset and I didn’t mean for it to come off like that. I was just saying personally that I didn’t think it seemed like sexual violence. If other people can have there opinions then why can’t I?

Anonymous asked

she was tied up, she was barely clothed, she had arrows in her breast and crotch. what else do I need to say? it was SEXUAL VIOLENCE. again, educate yourself about these issues please so you can understand better. I mean- did we even watch the same show?

A. She hardly ever wore appropriate close. (And that doesn’t not mean I think she deserved based on her clothes)
B. there were also arrows in her arms and legs. Not just her chest and crotch.
C. I am educated about these issues.
D. We have seen and heard about way worse things on this show and no one complained about it then.
E. we have seen/heard a few of the girls on the show almost being raped an no one complains then.

I just feel like we have seen and heard about much worse things in Game of Thrones than what happened to Ros tonight. I don’t get why everyone is freaking about it now.

# game of thrones

asongoffireandfangirling asked

I saw your post about Ros and I have to say I was more shocked I mean you knew she wouldn't live but damn ... Most of the people that are mad that I've seen posting haven't read the books But what do you think of Gendry's plot in place of Edric Storm

I just didn’t see it a being sexually violent. Now with the Gendry thing, I’m a little iffy on it. If it keeps him in the show, I think that will be nice because you don’t see him like at all in the books.